The Bell Curve Explained

Richard Herrnstein and Charles Murray's book, The Bell Curve: Intelligence and Class Structure in American Life, published in 1994, posits that intelligence is a key factor in determining life success. According to their argument, wealth is often a result of intelligence, poverty is frequently linked to a lack thereof, and average intelligence typically correlates with the middle class.

The bell curve illustrates a normal distribution, symbolizing human performance. It delineates three categories of achievers:

• Bottom: 20% of low performers
• Middle: 60% of average performers
• Top: 20% of high performers

This suggests that many of us are born into the "average" category in various aspects. Being "normal" is often equated with being mediocre.

Acknowledging Human Imperfection

As humans, we must accept our imperfections and flaws. Mastery in any field requires years of dedication and consistency. It’s unrealistic to expect proficiency in every area, even if we excel in one. Therefore, feeling inferior or lacking confidence is unnecessary.

Mark Manson argues that while aiming for mediocrity as a goal isn't ideal, being an average performer is acceptable. I believe that even if we consider ourselves average, we can still make a meaningful impact in certain areas of our lives.

Finding Contentment in Life

To lead a fulfilling life, whether in relationships or careers, achieving the highest level of success is not a prerequisite. Our worth isn’t dictated by external benchmarks of success; what truly matters is our happiness and self-assurance.

Is it Acceptable to Be Average?

The question of whether mediocrity is acceptable is subjective and varies based on individual perspectives and aspirations. Some view mediocrity as a consequence of insufficient effort toward their goals, while others see it as a pathway to a comfortable, stress-free existence.

It's important to recognize that mediocrity manifests in different forms. A person might be an average student or employee but excel in other areas, highlighting that being mediocre in one domain does not equate to overall mediocrity.

Societal Expectations and Norms

The concept of mediocrity is often shaped by societal standards. Certain careers are perceived as prestigious, while others are viewed as less desirable, creating pressure to achieve a specific level of success.

Conversely, mediocrity can lead to contentment and reduced stress. A stable, average life can free individuals from the constant competition for greatness.

Reframing Success

Ultimately, the perception of mediocrity is tied to personal goals. Living comfortably without the incessant pursuit of greatness isn't inherently negative. It's crucial to understand that success is a personal concept and shouldn't be dictated by societal pressures.

While it's acceptable to be average in some areas, aiming for mediocrity in life goals can hinder personal growth and skill development. We should embrace our abilities and strive for progress, consistency, and improvement.

“This is the great irony about ambition. If you wish to be smarter and more successful than everybody else, you will always feel like a failure. If you wish to be the most loved and most popular, then you will always feel alone. If you wish to be the most powerful and admired, then you will always feel weak and impotent.” — Mark Manson